“Mom, come here. I want to say goodnight.” That’s the cue. Whatever I am doing, washing the dishes or sitting by the computer, I know its is time, drop everything else. I go in to my 10-year old son’s room, slide under the cover, put my arm out so that he can rest his head on my shoulder and he puts his arm around me. He is an extremely active kid and does generally not take a lot of time to talk about what is going with him, but this is the time, when I get to hear about