Trust is such a BIG word. What does trust really mean? And how do we gain trust? To have someone tell us “I do not trust you,” feels awful. And not only that, it does not really tell us very much about why they feel this way.
John Gottman, professor of Psychology, well known for his work with couples, talks about trust being built in the smallest of moments and he gives an example that so beautifully portrays this.
Gottman was in bed reading a very suspenseful novel and